Is she going to hell?

My friend recently stopped going to church. Her sister died in jan and she blames god for it. She lives with her fiancee. She wants to get married and still work. She is going to school to be a funeral director. Her and her guy snuggle a lot and have . She smokes and has a stacked haircut with highlights. She also got her nails done. She is a disgrace to women for having and working.